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'RHOP' Star Candiace Dillard on Nicki Minaj, Her Issues With Ashley and Gizelle vs. Wendy (Exclusive)

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'RHOP's Candiace Dillard on Nicki Minaj, Her Issues With Ashley and Gizelle vs. Wendy (Exclusive)

Candiace Dillard Bassett has a deal to strike with Nicki Minaj: Ship eight bars on a remix to her new track “Drive Back” and Candiace will reply Nicki’s most burning query left over from season 5 of The Actual Housewives of Potomac

“One question for eight bars,” Candiace reiterates whereas Zooming with ET. The supply comes after Nicki entered the chat about RHOP a couple of weeks again on social media, posting a promo for the present that featured a Potomac-themed model of her monitor “Moment for Life.” Nicki joked she could be taking on reunion internet hosting duties from Andy Cohen, one thing Andy himself informed ET he’d be prepared to determine — no less than partly. He says they’re eying for the rapper to hitch for some type of section with the ladies of the DMV when the all-cast occasion tapes this fall.

“The Nicki Minaj saga, because it’s ever growing and changing, right? Every day I feel like we’re getting new information about, is she going to come to the reunion? Is she not?” Candiace rattles off. “I was live-tweeting last week’s episode and she’s literally live-tweeting with us and asking for opinions and giving her opinions. I’m going to have no edges. It’s too much. It’s just too much stress for me.”

Nicki known as out Candiace straight when the Watch What Occurs Dwell With Andy Cohen Instagram account dropped in her IG feedback to say Nicki ought to do a characteristic on “Drive Back.” Nicki was confused at first, asking, “babe what’s dat?” When the WWHL account defined it was Candiace’s track, Nicki replied, “oh yea … it’s a nice song. But @ reunion ima have to get into some thangz wit sisy. Cuz chiiiile.”

“I did not take what she said about my song as shade,” Candiace notes. “She said, ‘Oh, it’s a nice song,’ but we have things to talk about at the reunion. And I was like, ‘OK girl, bye. Get on this track and then let’s go home. I ain’t talking to you about nothing that happened in season 5. Good night.”

It is clear Candiace is completed talking in regards to the occasions of season 5, which largely centered on a bodily altercation between her and now-former co-star Monique Samuels, and the occasion’s aftermath. Candiace calls season 6 “fun,” dubbing it the season she at all times wished to have on RHOP.

“This season I think is what I thought my first season would be like and what I thought, when I pictured myself in this experience, this is what I saw,” she shares. “Because, what you’ve seen so far is who I am. I like to have fun. I like to laugh. I like to joke around.”

“I wished the audience had gotten to see [that] from the beginning,” she provides. ‘Not that the ‘pop-off Candiace’ will not be me, as a result of I am multifaceted. Black girls are usually not monoliths and there are lots of layers to us, OK? However I believe that it was simply, you have been simply seeing that one a part of me, and I am blissful that the viewers and that you simply guys are attending to see one other a part of me. That is, this season has been enjoyable for me up to now.”

Candiace first joined the present in season 3 by means of Ashley Darby, a good friend from the pageant circuit within the D.C. space. Their relationship has been stuffed with ups and downs — effectively, actually, simply downs — however the why has gotten misplaced within the combine, even for Candiace herself. 

“It’s funny, I don’t think anyone has ever publicly asked me that question,” Candiace says of what is on the core of her beef with Ashley. “I don’t think anyone has ever gotten this answer publicly. I’ve had to think about it, too, because I got lost in it, as well. For me, when I first joined this cast, when I first joined this group of girls, I came in as Ashley’s friend. We knew each other through the pageant world. As a friend, I have a standard of protocols. Loyalty is one of them.”

“For example, when Wendy [Osefo] came in, I welcomed with open arms,” Candiace notes. “I introduced her to the group. I stood by her. I called her every other day. I made sure she was good. I checked in with her. I was her friend. I didn’t get that from Ashley. Ashley brought me in, she dumped me on the side of the road, and then she was shading me in confessionals five minutes after I joined the cast. I didn’t even see that until it aired. I was like, ‘Wow. Who is this girl?'”

Ashley Darby And Candiace Dillard Just Before Their Memorable 'Butter Knife Fight' On The Real Housewives Of Potomac
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If viewers return to Candiace’s first episode, moments after Ashley introduces Candiace to the group, she makes enjoyable of Candiace’s pageant expertise as being “off-brand.” Whereas that will really feel like par for the course shade on this planet of Housewives, Candiace notes it was simply the primary of many digs to come back over the previous couple of years.

“If we’re friends, why are you shading me in your confessionals?” she asks. “And why are you not showing any sense of loyalty to me, whatsoever? From there, it became a bunch of flexing matches. The true catalyst, for me, was when she involved herself in legal matters, simply to be vindictive.”

Candiace is referencing Ashley’s alternative to put in writing a personality assertion in help of Monique amid the authorized fallout from their altercation. All costs have been in the end dropped, however the injury was executed. 

“‘Now we’re even,’ is what she said to me,” Candiace recollects. “There’s a scene of her and Gizelle [Bryant] and Robyn [Dixon], where Gizelle is like, ‘This is not going to help you all’s friendship.’ From Ashley’s mouth, she says, ‘I don’t care.’ You don’t care, watch me not care better than you.”

Ashley lately gave her personal clarification for her falling out with Candiace on Watch What Occurs Dwell, saying, “That’s my issue with Candiace, no matter how much you try to talk to her about something and confront her about something, she’s always going to find some way to, you know, like, push it off, shove it off.”

“I think it’s poppycock,” Candiace fires again. “Ashley is the queen of deflection. The queen of deflection. There are so many examples… She’s full of you know what. I literally pay her no mind. None. You can’t take anything she says seriously. She’s disloyal to everybody, except… let me, I’m going to not be rude. You know who she’s loyal to, because that’s where her help is. Everybody else can get it at any time. People like that are dangerous people, so I stay far, far away.”

The 2 will come nose to nose quickly, although, when Ashley arrives late to the all-cast journey to Williamsburg, Virgina, to which Candiace didn’t invite her. That is the second group occasion Candiace excluded Ashley from, although it is value noting that the 33-year-old had simply given start to her second son. It’s unclear if something will go down between the pair, however a sneak peek at Sunday’s episode does present Ashley stirring up a bit of drama for Wendy. Ashley informs Wendy that Gizelle has been asking round about rumors circulating on “the blogs” that Wendy’s husband, Eddie, has been untrue, main to an enormous blowup between the professor and the Bravo’s Chat Room co-host.

“It’s probably almost a full-tilt wig shift moment,” Candiace teases of what all goes down in Williamsburg. “Only because it comes out of nowhere. You know, like, we’re sitting there doing a whiskey tasting … and then Wendy disappears, and then all of a sudden it’s, like, we are in ruins. It’s rocks flying everywhere and just, tornado. It’s crazy.”

“That moment was intense and it kind of lingered, obviously, for the rest of the trip,” she shares. “I tried to pick it back up. I think, I lost it for a moment, ’cause it was– the blog stuff was triggering to me. So I kind of had a moment. But then we kind of got back together and worked it out. Wendy, maybe not so much, but we tried.”

As seen within the trailer for the season, Wendy tells Gizelle, “What you’re not going to do is, you’re not going to play with my husband’s name. … I see you for everything everyone ever said that you were. … I will light yo’ a** up.”

Gizelle has maintained that she solely repeated the rumors out of concern for her co-star, however Wendy doesn’t see it that manner. She informed ET it felt like a premeditated assault in a sample of Gizelle inserting herself into her co-stars’ marriages. 

“I still haven’t processed it, mostly because I’ve never believed the rumors,” Candiace admits of the entire ordeal. “One thing that Wendy did say, and I echoed, was that we have all in our past, in our girl group, we’ve all been negatively affected by the fodder that the blogs put out. It has hurt everyone in our group. It has bruised all of our families in some way. And I just hated that we were giving, once again, a platform on our platform to these horrific people who literally eat off of our pain. That’s where I was with it.”

“I wish that there was just something else to talk about,” she says. “But Gizelle, she’s going to carry a bone, honey. And you have to be ready, to quote someone that we know well, ‘We have to be ready to return serve.'”

Wendy Osefo And Gizelle Bryant Face Off On Season 6 Of The Real Housewives Of Potomac
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Candiace says Wendy was blindsided by the “sneak attack” as a result of she “thought she was safe with Gizelle.”

“What we all must learn, dear grasshopper, is that no one is safe with Gizelle,” Candiace purrs. “And the sooner you learn that, the quicker that you can kind of let things roll off your back. Be like a duck, let it roll off your back. ‘Cause she was really hurt, Wendy. You could see it. Wendy wears everything on her face and she was just, like, shocked and hurt, and every emotion was just right on her face. Because she thought that she was immune to Gizelle’s tirades and her terrorism.”

In contrast to season 5, although, Candiace guarantees that the drama between Gizelle and Wendy doesn’t upend the good friend group. 

“There isn’t a lot of lingering, whereas last season, we were stuck on one or two things for 19 episodes,” she says. “We are able to pick up and move quicker this season, which I appreciate.”

“Wendy is a very mature, very smart woman,” she provides. “She knows how to pick herself up and carry on. There were definitely some heated moments after that. I think right after the fight, there’s a moment between the two of them — and we’re all in the same room — one tries to speak to the other, and it doesn’t go well. Then, I think we separate for a while, which helps. I’m thanking God that I had the wherewithal to put them in different houses [on the trip], so that they wouldn’t have to see each other all day, every day. I think we are better able, this season, to move forward.”

Along with talking about Wendy’s marriage, Gizelle appears a tad obsessive about Wendy’s new physique. The Johns Hopkins professor obtained a little bit of a mommy makeover between seasons 5 and 6, choosing a breast augmentation and Brazilian butt carry. Her new look comes with new confidence, and Wendy has been exhibiting off her upgraded property in revealing fashions in each episode. 

“I’ve seen more of your body parts in the past month than I have in the entire time I’ve known you,” Gizelle tells Wendy, with Robyn chiming in to say, “The Wendy I met last year was not that… loose.”

“The girl is showing off her new titties, honey. Let Happy and Ness breathe,” Candiace says, referencing the names with which Wendy blessed her new breasts. “They’re just trying to get settled into their new cavities. And new-booty Wendy is here to stay. I love it. I think it’s amazing. As someone who is preparing for motherhood — I’m not pregnant, but preparing mentally for motherhood — the moment I get pregnant I will be making the appointment.”

Wendy Osefo Flaunts Her Refreshed Figure On The Real Housewives Of Potomac
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“Gizelle has had work done,” she then blurts out. “After she had twins, she was stretched into excessive heaven. All people will get work executed. I do not perceive why it is a factor that Wendy is celebrating her new physique.”

Shifting off from Wendy, however sticking with Gizelle, season 6 has its moments of Potomac deja vu, because the EveryHue Magnificence founder is as soon as once more in a battle with Karen Huger. The RHOP OGs have been tossing barbs backwards and forwards for so long as they have been on the present. This yr, Karen is twisting a remark Gizelle made years in the past about her husband Ray’s age, into saying she wished dying upon him, taking their feud into a brand new circle of petty. Final week’s episode left off in the midst of a sparring match between the pair, surrounded by the forged.

“Every day is a challenge with those two,” Candiace quips. “They are kind of like two old ladies in a nursing home, who got this, like, centuries-long history. Inside at the bottom of their sternums, they love each other, but they just get such a kick out of bickering that that’s what they’re going to do to the bitter end. There are some, some ebbs and flows, some more ebbs and flows — and there’s some breakthrough moments with them that I was shocked by — but then it kind of goes left again.”

Candiace says she retains her “hard hat on” when round each Gizelle and Karen, the latter of whom she has her personal points with. Karen and Candiace ended season 5 on a bitter word, with Candiace accusing Karen of attempting to get her fired from the present over the drama with Monique. Karen stayed impartial within the aftermath of the altercation, a giant no-no in Candiace’s guide of loyalty. 

“I have to accept people for where they are, when they show me, and it just, it is what it is,” Candiace says of Karen. “It’s not worth arguing over because I’m not in the business of trying to change entire human beings. I can only change myself. And it’s, Karen is for Karen and I can’t change that.”

Hypothesis circulated, even amongst Candiace’s co-stars, that she didn’t wish to be round Karen when the season began. She sat out the primary group dinner, Wendy’s Nude Interlude get together to debut her new look, and Robyn recommended it was to keep away from Karen.  

The Season 6 Cast Of Bravo'S The Real Housewives Of Potomac
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“Categorically false,” Candiace declares. “I ain’t scared of no bleep, OK? I run from no one. I don’t fuss with anybody but the devil, unless I have to, OK? I was having some issues with my lower hemisphere. I had to sit down. That’s all. And I hate [it], ‘cause that was the first cast event. I was devastated that I had to miss it. But I could not have gone. Driving? Wendy lives in west bumble-f**k, America. I just, I was too nervous to have to ride in the car for two hours.”

Candiace says her abdomen misery is the one factor that stored her from attending the dinner, shutting down additional rumors that she was holding out on signing her contract for season 6 and a few inventive modifying was executed to make it appear like she could not attend. Viewers speculated she merely wasn’t filming on the time. 

Candiace says there may be some optimistic motion relating to her relationship with Karen this season, however the pair won’t ever be on the place they as soon as have been. Karen has a sample of taking the brand new ladies — from Ashley to Monique to Candiace — beneath her wing, however just for a choose time period, one thing she’s predicting will occur to season 6’s new addition, Mia Thornton, too. 

“Yeah, I do,” she shrugs. “But my hope is that maybe Karen sees the pattern and she maybe does some work to find some genuine nuggets and put them in her back pocket and let them seep into her. Because yeah, it very much gives, ‘Let me attach myself to someone who is looking for guidance and ride that out until they see who I am, and then dip out.’ Peace out.”

Whereas Candiace is providing a sort-of warning to Mia, she’s additionally cautious of her new co-star. Followers are eagerly anticipating the “salad toss” combat between the 2, first teased within the season 6 trailer. Candiace says viewers must wait a beat, seeing because the second would not go down till the second forged journey later this season. 

“Everybody is, ‘Oh my God. Candiace is being so nice to Mia, then she throws a salad in her face!’ Yes, that is true,” Candiace feedback. “It was a slow burn. You see, so far, I’m team Mia. I like her. She’s fun. She’s very candid, and she’s great — for me, as someone who is watching it all now. I enjoy watching her. I know that the audience does, too.”

The Real Housewives Of Potomac Get Into A Salad-Tossing Fight In The Season 6 Trailer
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“You see her, one by one, just picking off each of us,” she teases. “She takes a moment to haze everybody in the group, except for Karen. At this time, I have not had my turn. When it’s my turn, and you’ll see that play out in future episodes, I wasn’t ready, because I thought that we were cool. It’s clear that she also displays no loyalty to anybody, and will go at whomever when it suits her, when she’s in the mood. The problem is, if you’re going to come at me, just be prepared for me to come back. That’s how that works.”

“I was here for her until I wasn’t,” Candiace says, including that she has some questions for her co-star come reunion day. “I think, true to form, with those who can’t handle it in this group, when my mouth gets going sometimes you lose your words, and you just got to pick up a salad, I guess.”

“Y’all just need to pick up a dictionary, learn to put your words together, girl,” she provides. The trailer exhibits what appears to be manufacturing getting concerned within the salad toss, however Candiace says that is merely simply her husband, Chris Bassett, stepping in to assist separate her from Mia. Chris is stepping in much more for Candiace now that he’s her husbanger, AKA her husband/supervisor of her budding music profession. Candiace lately signed with eOne Nashville and launched the only “Drive Back.” Viewers will get to see the behind-the-scenes making of the monitor’s video, which options cameos from her co-stars. 

“Everybody didn’t just get in. Yes, they had to audition,” Candiace reveals. “I hope they show this because, yes. Some of the saints, I had to extend a little bit of grace to some of the saints, because, yeah… a few of them — because we did two separate auditions and one was like an interpretive thing and I was kind of side-eyeing like, ‘Is this what we’re doing? What are we giving?’ Yeah. It was so funny. It’s so, so, so fun.”

Candiace shot two music movies again to again beneath Chris’ supervision, a lot to her mom Dorothy’s dismay. Dorothy was very vocal with Candiace early on this season’s run that she doesn’t assume husbands and wives ought to get into enterprise collectively, however Candiace thinks there’s a bit of jealousy at play. 

“I think that she will probably always side-eye it, because my mom wants to be the Kris Jenner in my life, as she refers to herself,” she says. 

A full document is on the best way, with influences of the voices Candiace grew up listening to: Toni Braxton, Monica, Brandy, Whitney Houston and Mariah Carey. 

“You’re going to get a little bit of R&B, a little bit more of a pop vibe, but I also love rock sounds,” she says. “So, you’re going to get some electric guitars, some crazy synth sounds, some really cool percussion sounds. … My team has really supported me in giving you all an amalgamation of sounds. So, you’re going to get everything.”

Cameras captured that journey, in addition to Candiace and Chris’ house life. Viewers will see the couple get actual about having a baby collectively. Chris has two youngsters from a earlier relationship.

“I got pretty intense and emotional about my baby journey. It’s not that I don’t want to watch it back, it’s a lot of emotion, and I am not particularly excited about being back in that emotional place about what happens,” Candiace shares, “and what we decide to go through with my journey to becoming a mom. And it’s raw. It’s a lot of raw moments, and it’s very vulnerable. I’m, at this point, I know everybody hates when I cry, and I’m not looking forward to people being like, ‘Oh, she’s crying again.'”

Candiace lately determined to show the tables on viewers who slide into her and her co-stars’ DMs and remark sections to spew vitriol, now usually reposting hateful messages she receives. 

“Sometimes it goes so far, and people need to understand how toxic social media can be and do better,” she says. “And I say this as someone who has had my moments where I’ve said mean things to people on social media. But the things that some people say to me and to all my friends, the girls on the show with me, somebody told Robyn to die in a fire. That stuff is just dangerous. And we have to do better because you would never walk up to her and say that.”

“Take it for entertainment,” she asks. “If there’s a lesson to be learned in it, take that lesson. I also get a lot of really pleasant messages from people and emails, thanking me or saying that they went through X, Y, and Z, which I love. But it just feels like there’s, oftentimes, more of that really sick, negative vitriol. And I had a moment, and I said, ‘You know what? I’m exposing this because it needs to stop.’ And the response has been insane. People are really shocked and just appalled by it, which I hope is a message to us to hold each other accountable. And you don’t know me, girl. It’s very much giving ‘Stan.’ It’s giving Eminem’s ‘Stan,’ and nobody has time.”

Candiace can also be fast to level out the hypocrisy of the meanest commentators. “It’s like, ‘I’m a child of God, but F you! You ugly,'” she says. “It’s always the ones that are the Jesus stompers, but they didn’t really come from Jesus, OK? I would know.”

The Actual Housewives of Potomac airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on Bravo. 

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