Becca Kufrin isn’t here to criticize her decision to propose to Thomas Jacobs. He proposed to her a month after the former Bachelorette was revealed bachelor in heaven Beau, Kufrin slammed social media users who don’t support a woman proposing to a man.
Kufrin said, “We’ve got so much love from people, but I’ve also seen comments where people say, ‘He’s desperate. I would never let a woman propose to a man. I would never do that.'” His bachelor happy hour podcast. “It’s cool, it’s you. As a woman, why am I desperate to propose to someone?”
“If Thomas had to do the exact same thing in a week, nobody would say he’s desperate. It doesn’t make sense to me. The logic isn’t there,” she said. “Love is love, and every relationship is so different, so why not do what works for us? I knew he would appreciate and support it greatly, and he would never be offended if the woman proposed to the man.” No. So it is so, why should [it] It doesn’t matter who does?”
The idea to raise the question came after Kufrin saw his eighth-grade dance teacher perform this in a recital. “The first thoughts were, ‘Oh, this is weird,’ and then I was immediately like, ‘This is great! she explained. “I still remember that moment from decades ago, ‘Well this is kind of rad. You’re changing the norms.'”
Jacobs was there to propose to Kufrin, as did his family and friends.
“There were a common two [phrases] Whenever we used to tell our family and friends this was always said. It was: ‘Not at all! It’s awesome!'” Jacobs said on the podcast. “If you think about it, the feeling of it is incredible because you have someone who cares so much that they want to do it for you, do something that It’s not done yet.”
“Talk about an unusual gesture of love! [It’s] out of the ordinary. The amount of thought that has to go into it, not only the execution, but also the courage to be the idea that you want to act on. It’s amazing. It’s amazing,” he continued. “I feel so lucky to be able to experience it. I am even more fortunate to be with you. I’m just excited for this life.”
As far as proposal day, it all seemed destined when the couple went to a farmer’s market and got different readings from a woman selling bracelets with gems.
The woman asked Jacobs when he planned to propose to her before pulling out a card that revealed Kufrin was her soul mate. Then, during Kufrin’s reading, the woman encouraged him not to hesitate and said that everything would be all right.
Things got even more strange when the woman asked the couple about the importance of sunflowers. For Jacobs, it’s her favorite flower, so much so that Kufrin had it carved inside her wedding band. For Kufrin, it was an important flower for his late father, who died at the age of 19. The woman shocked the couple when she told them that Kufrin’s late father was handing a bouquet of flowers to Jacobs.
Hours later, the pair headed to what Jacobs believed was a Vine photo shoot.
Jacobs recalled, “She had this wonderful set-up. It was picnic tables, rose petals, a special terrace to sit on with these fabrics and linens.” “… needless to say, it’s so over the top that I go up and I jokingly go, ‘That’s really cool. What are you proposing to me or something?'”
Despite his jokes, Jacobs said he had “no clue” what was about to happen.
“We finally sit down and we’re enjoying it. We’re taking these candid photos with wine and eating charcuterie. He finally handed me this card in about 10 minutes. I’m like, ‘Oh this It’s good. It’s perfect.’ I’m still thinking it’s a Vine photo shoot. In my mind I’m like, ‘This is a little weird, but sure, it’s awesome,'” he explained. “Then I open the card and it states that she likes to spend all her days with me and that she wants to spend all her tomorrows with me.”
“There’s a QR Code. I open the QR Code on my phone and it’s a video of all my friends and family telling me why they love me, the things they love about me. Not me Knew it was an offer!” Jacob continued. “I’m watching this, I tap the screen, it’s a 15-minute video. I’m like, ‘Babe, this is amazing, but we should watch this later.'” I was sent there on a mission to do a Vine photo shoot and I was going to do the best danger I could.”
In the end, Jacobs said, his “favourite thing” about the experience happened.
,[Kufrin said she] I know it’s a partnership, it’s 50/50, and she loves me so much and doesn’t want it to take away from anything I’ve planned, and like to add to life she wants to do For, she wants it to be an expression of her love that adds to our story, and she didn’t want to wait any longer, and she wanted to spend her life with me. And then he proposed!” she said aloud. “He took out a ring and I was just laughing in pure joy. it was awesome.”
While Kufrin didn’t get down on one knee to ask Jacobs to marry her, she assured fans that she “asks” if he wants to marry her. “I was like, ‘Do I really, officially need to do this? he said.
After tying the knot, the couple has already decided to add their names, which they will pass on to their children.
Jacobs explained, “Since Becca has lost her father and it’s her and her sister, I don’t want to see a scenario where there is no Kufrin roaming around in the world.” “I think it’s a special thing.”
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